If you ask an introvert a question, wait until she thinks about it. Introverts think before speaking, not through speaking. If you want to get to the good stuff, you need to slow down. Contrary to what most people think an introvert is not a shy person at all, they just get drained by the energy from other people, an introvert person does not enjoy a lot of social scenes as this totally drains them up. they need time to be alone in order to recharge and to rethink, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy,introversion itself is not shyness. They are very energized by being alone, some people call them loners but they just need a few hours alone not forever alone.
Introverts are more concerned with their inner world, they enjoy exploring, coming up with new ideas and concepts. In fact introverts do not enjoy small talks and no they are not arrogant. they want to talk about a bigger picture and when conversations are normally about big talks they get excited and participate.They are quiet most of the times, thoughtful and non- reactive. people might find it off- putting but i don’t because i have introvert friends and with time i have come to understand them.
People don’t know how to deal with introverts: Let’s be honest, introverts don’t easily show or say what they are thinking. They live a private existence, keep their thoughts to themselves, and withhold deep emotional pondering. In an reinforcement –happy society like theirs, the absence of this can leave people confused and bewildered.
I know it can get tough understanding an introvert but if you have great socializing skills and psychological skills both paired up it will be an advantage to you to understand them more. all they need is time, they don’t like to be rushed and to be pushed. They take their time to think this doesn’t mean that they are less clever, for instance if you ask an introvert a question that needs an immediate answer don’t expect the answer from them immediately give them time and they will get back to you. i cant talk about extroverts now because that’s totally a different topic, even though i am an extrovert but i get along perfectly well with introverts.
One more thing i love with introverts is that your secret is very safe with them Haha! you can call me silly but this is the truth. please don’t piss an introvert off, they are all cool but when they cant take it any more its gets scary. Introverts need to be cared for and understood.